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Gail D’Arcy's avatar

I picked up this book last year because of a really decent review in The Financial Times (worth noting the author’s husband works there). And while I agree with much of your analysis of the book’s flaws and the harsh legal action against SWW, I don’t share your view that it’s entertaining. I found it unnecessarily bitchy throughout.

Most striking is the extraordinary gap between how SWW presents herself and how she actually comes across. She repeatedly declares her diplomatic credentials — “I insist I know what I’m talking about, and given my years as a diplomat” — and pitches her role as someone who builds relationships before Facebook needs them. Yet the book is full of moments where she seems spectacularly out of her depth.

Take Myanmar, which becomes the moral centrepiece of the whole book. She flies out there because “someone needs to figure out what is going on.” Clearly, she’s the person for the job! She checks into a hotel with no electricity, no hot water, no food, and no internet. Seriously. It’s not like Myanmar didn’t offer hotels with these essentials for any diplomat or visitor to the country after all, the country was hosting a World Economic Forum event at that time! To her credit she secures a chat with Ang San Suu Kyi because her “diplomatic training” helped her locate the seating map! Honestly, I laughed out loud. When she leaves the hotel, she is incapable of arranging transport, considers hitchhiking on an empty road, has no local currency, no local language knowledge, jumps into a random car, and then tries to write down the name of a government department before remembering that Burmese uses a different script and has to resort to sign language and mime. FFS!

This isn’t the behaviour of a seasoned diplomat. It’s Murray from Flight of the Conchords! The comparison kept nagging at me throughout the book. She tells us she’s brilliant at diplomacy while showing us scene after scene of incompetence. She may well be likeable in person, but as an author, she’s strangely unaware of how these anecdotes, as well as the meanness and unnecessary bitchiness about others undermine her own authority.

Greg Bowman-York's avatar

Hi Ian. Just wanted to say that as well as enjoying the substack, I've got a lot out of reading your book 'Conflicted'.

I'm finding I'm having more interesting and stimulating conversations, especially as I'm no longer viewing them as a zero-sum game where my opinion must prevail for it to be successful. It means I can go into a conversation with curiosity and a readiness to be challenged and develop my views, without the need to be on the defensiveness from the start.

Thank you.

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